October 3, 2020

Don’t spend too much time texting with someone


  My tip for today is to not spend too much time texting with someone. Try to get out and meet them in person. I find that sometimes we have this build up and then when we meet in person the energy and chemistry is just not there. Sometimes we talk for weeks, and sometimes we say things and then we meet and are like OMG!! #wtfmoments

September 27, 2020

Being his Girlfriend….


  When do you become his girlfriend?Being on so many dating sites this is your ultimate goal. Right?You want to be his girlfriend, but sometimes you end up being just a girl he has sex with. How do you become the girlfriend, and NOT the girl he is just sexing with!? Lets hear your comments?

not ready tindertip picture
September 24, 2020



  If a guy SAYS he just ended his 20 year marriage 2 months ago…RUN! This guy is not looking for a relationship.He may think he is ready….which I wrote about in my book “Stay Single and Be Happy” Chapter 8 “When love ends”However he is NOT. So don’t waste your time, and swipe left, delete, and move on.

Tinder Tips sunglass
September 22, 2020

First Tinder tip


  Here is your Tinder tip for today.If his profile has pictures of him wearing his sunglasses 😎😎 and NO other pictures. Do not, I repeat do not meet with this guy. You MUST see a picture with his actual face. Why?This happened to me…..It was not pretty.